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Today, I experimented with asking guys on Tinder if they want relationships or casual sex.

I hoped it would help me avoid wasting time talking to people who didn't share my goals. So much of the stress and heartache that can come along with dating could be avoided if we were all honest with each other from the beginning.

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I asked a dozen Tinder matches what they were really looking.

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Some gave me honest answers right away, while others were pretty taken aback by my question. And honestly, that makes sense — it's a funny thing to ask someone right off the bat.

Usually, it takes me about two months of hanging out IRL to work up the courage to bring up the conversation. But this looking for sex only relationship wound up working well for me, so I might start broaching the subject sooner.

Shawn was game to talk.

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Look, I get that we literally matched 30 seconds earlier and we haven't had time to get to know each.

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I don't know what Jacqukeem is looking for looking for sex only relationship Tinder, but I have a theory that guys who relationahip give you a straight answer about what they're looking for fall into two main categories:. I wanted to press on and ask Jacqukeem what he thought about that, but I got the vibe that he wasn't interested in having a relationnship about his feelings.

So I moved on. Way on the other end of the spectrum, Seex had no problem telling me what he wanted: And not just casual sex on October 30th, but specifically casual sex on October 30th in his hotel room on 33rd Street after buying me a drink.

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Vijul opened with a line that I would very much like to steal for myself, and then explained that he simply wants to "release some steam and have fun. I got the sense that he wasn't giving me the full story, so I followed up with a clarifying question, and boom.

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Got it. His real answer: But if it happens, it happens. I was a journalism major in college, and one of the most useful tips I learned in my reporting classes is that it's never enough to ask one question. You always get more information from asking smart follow-up questions.

That holds true whether you're a journalist trying to press a source for a scoop or you're just a person catching feelings and trying to casually figure out if your date has them. Anthony originally told me that he's new to New York and isn't really sure what he's looking.

I went back to his profile for a closer look, and that's when I noticed his bio, which was in its entirety:. I have a hunch that Anthony looking for sex only relationship looking for something looking for sex only relationship or casual instead of serious at the moment, but who knows. Moving on. I loved that Kyle acknowledged right away that he has a go-to "canned bs response" for questions like. It was so real. It makes me wonder — how many people bdsm brothel melbourne dated Kyle and asked him similar questions?

At first, Christian presented himself looking for sex only relationship a guy who simply likes to meet new people, but doesn't have much luck with Tinder. Aaaand there we go. After a few questions, he got honest about what he's looking for: I have a gf I thought it was refreshing that Patrick told me right up front that he's looking for a relationship — though the way he prefaced it with, "Uhhh well tbh kinda hoping for" is more evidence that there's a stigma women want sex Elmhurst guys owning the fact that they're looking for a relationship.

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If we end up in a relationship, that's cool too, but I'm not seeking that. I decided to test my theory about the stigma around stating you're looking for a relationship on Roger to see what he thought. He responded that he's in a transitional looking for sex only relationship of his life right now and needs "the freedom to figure out what I want my life to be like before I decide what sort of relationship I want to be in.

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Roman looking for sex only relationship revealed he was looking for a relationship, which surprised me. So many men are apparently looking to commit! Who knew? It got me thinking — maybe women assume that men are only looking for sex because we don't bother to actually ask.

Roman wrote, "Well most guys are looking just rflationship hook up right? He agreed that it's "better in the long run to state what your intentions are.

Someone isn't a bad person if they're just interested in casual sex — but YOU may be wrong depending on how you handle the situation. “I'm not interested in a serious relationship,” he'd say. “I'm just looking for something casual.” a month later when (surprise!) the guy still only wanted to have sex. Are you wondering if your casual sexual relationship can turn into For example, does he or she only seem to text you late at night to come. Sasha, 36, who works for a tech company in Portland, was looking to fill "I'm in favor of sex-only relationships if you enter them knowingly.

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I decided to be brave loking send him my number. We're texting now — and thanks to my opening line, I already know that we're looking for the same thing.

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